Carers Week, 8th to 14 June

Carers Week is an annual awareness campaign to recognise the vital contribution made by unpaid carers across the UK.

This year’s Carers Week campaign (8-14 June), supported locally by Carers Leeds and citywide partners is asking people come together and help “Make Caring Visible.”

Leeds has at least 74,000 unpaid carers, and more people are taking on extra caring responsibilities at this time, for their relatives and friends who are disabled, ill or older and who need support.  Caring roles are many and varied – including those who support people living with dementia, those who care for children with additional needs, those caring for people who have mental illness, those who care for their parents due to disability or age.

During the coronavirus lockdown, many carers are experiencing the added challenge of caring for someone 24/7, when previously there were groups, activities and support for their loved one to be part of in their weekly routine.  Charities and services have adapted to provide as much support as they can in other ways, but life is not the same.

Those looking after someone should be recognised for the difficulties they are experiencing, respected for all they are doing, and provided with information, support and understanding.

There will be many people we can think of in our own families, friendship groups and throughout our community at Moortown who are carers. Perhaps you yourself are a carer…

What can we do to help?

  1. Raise awareness

– Add Your Voice on the Carers Week Website or on social media to help make caring

   visible using the hashtag #CarersWeek

  1. Recognise the impact of caring

– Talk to carers and help them to access the support services in our community, for  

   example, put them in touch with Carers Leeds (details below) or let them know about

   the ‘Looking after someone guide’ (updated coronavirus information on this page):

   https://www.carersuk.org/help-and-advice/get-resources/looking-after-someone

  1. Do something for carers

– Could you reach out to someone who you know is caring, in a time when they may be

  feeling isolated? A telephone call, a card or letter could help make that connection.

-Could you start a zoom group for people you know who are carers? It could provide a

  time for them to chat or perhaps you could try learning a new skill or craft together?

Carers Leeds is here to provide vital information, advice and support to carers throughout Leeds. Their expert team of Carer Support Workers are available via the advice line which is open Monday–Friday, 9am–5pm. Call 0113 380 4300 or e-mail advice@carersleeds.org.uk

They also offer free online events every week for carers including wellbeing workshops, relaxation, zumba zooming, and support groups for carers in different situations.

You can read and listen to the moving, challenging and encouraging stories of Leeds carers here: https://www.carersleeds.org.uk/caring-during-lockdown/

Thank you to all the dedicated, wonderful carers out there – you are not forgotten. 

Carole Smith (MBC Seniors’ Worker) Shelley Dring (Children and Families Worker)

Shona Shaw (MBC Co-Minister) Graham Brownlee (MBC Co-Minister)

CHURCH AT HOME – FAMILY AT MOORTOWN, SUNDAY JUNE 7. WATCH AGAIN HERE

lt was church as normal today, and for us after eleven weeks of lockdown that meant a 10.45am start via Facebook at www.facebook.com/moortownbaptistchurch

To watch our first live stream click HERE

To see all our prerecorded material you will need to re- tune to our Youtube channel which is something you can do direct from HERE

Our second live stream is HERE

However, if it’s Shelley’s Family at Moortown programme you are looking for that’s just as easy to find. All you do is click HERE 

Immediately following the Service we published a post on our website titled BLACK LIVES MATTER. You can reached that post HERE

Past – Present – Future… A new look to our Church Meeting, to Oasis and even to our busses

With more than fifty people logging in for a practice run MBC’s first ever virtual Church Meeting is all set to go. Next Tuesday, June 9th with a 7.30pm for 8 start the 90 minute (approx) meeting will include break out discussions on what we are learning in lockdown and sharing the findings of an interim report titled Relating Well Together. In addition there will be catch ups re Youth work, deacon’s elections, staffing and finance. Many thanks to Phil Coates for providing this excellent screenshot of the practice. There is a separate article about the Church Meeting elsewhere on the website which can be accessed by clicking HERE 

There was also a new look for Oasis Cafe this week. Last Tuesday Shelley introduced Story Time, a short slot in which someone reads their favourite bible story. Opening the feature and making his debut was Sam Joyce (left) who had everyone gripped by his telling of the tale of Jonah being swallowed by a big fish. Other stories lined up are: Daniel and the lions den, The miraculous catch, Psalm 139 and Joseph and his coat. You can join Oasis Cafe at 11am on Tuesdays by going to www.facebook.com/moortots and you can catch on any you have missed on Youtube by visiting Family at Moortown

Elsewhere on the website there is chance to revisit the whole of our Pentecost service. However, such was the reaction that we couldn’t resist the temptation to give our Pentecost Dance/movement sequence another airing. From hula-hooping to lamb dancing and from pan banging to ballet it is universally agreed that we must find a way of bottling all this talent so that at some stage in the future, live, and in public we can reprise it. Above is a collage of totally random screenshot images grabbed during the performance, but if you would like to experience the entire spectacle again all you need to do is to click HERE 

Karen’s cross stitching ticks all the right boxes

As well as being MBC’s ace hula-hooper Karen Handley is also proving to be no mean crafter.

“I took up cross stitching some years ago,” says Karen “but hadn’t done a project for a while. Then I suddenly remembered that I still had both the raw materials and a frame that had been given to me by a friend after I had admired some of her work.”

“Over these last few weeks” added Karen “it’s kept me occupied whilst I can neither teach, nor go into the the charity shop where I volunteer.
 
Above all it’s reminded me of how much I enjoy cross stitching, and as a bonus it’s also provided us with a new home for a few of our small treasures, each of which is now backed by a different card mounted design.”
 
Many thanks to John Kavanagh for sending in these pictures of how our busses now look. A maximum of 19 passengers per double-decker to ensure social distancing and at the time of writing a recommendation that everyone uses contactless payment and wears a mask.
And finally Some things never change. It won’t take me to remind you that over the last eleven weeks many things have changed. However, is there something in your life, some habit, some tradition that is so set in stone that no matter what this one thing carries on exactly as normal.
 
In one household I know it’s the tradition of eating Sunday dinner in the dining room rather than at the kitchen table like the other six days in the week. In another it’s sitting down every other Thursday, putting pen to paper and writing a letter to relatives in New Zealand; despite the fact that since early April they have been Zooming one another weekly. 
 
So is there something that you can tell us about, some constant that even Covid-19 hasn’t disrupted. If there is or if you have anything else you would like to share please send a few words and if possible a picture to mbcnewspics@gmail.com 
 
Thank you

Justice for George Floyd and more – a message from Shona and Graham

We are sending this for prayer, sharing, listening, comment and speaking out

Yesterday in our Church at Home service, we celebrated the Holy Spirit’s outpouring at Pentecost. The words of the prophet Joel are familiar to us but I do not know a time, when Joel’s words have stirred in me such sadness and guilt that I have stood in the way of others receiving God’s favour. For if I receive the blessing of Pentecost for myself and my household, I cannot ignore the challenge of Pentecost to share this blessing.

The anger and grief that is currently being poured out on the doorstep of the White House in the wake of George Floyd’s murder, is no localized phenomenon, it belongs at my doorstep too. For as a white woman, I am part of the status quo and have benefited from the status quo that has crushed and exploited those for whom the Spirit is poured out.

I am not asking you to condone violence, I’m asking you to stop and listen to our brothers and sisters. Not to judge or condemn but to openly listen. We keep being told our return to a new normal is a great opportunity for changing our ways. Could we commit to be a returning church that has the courage to be held accountable and the grace to listen, even if it makes us uncomfortable? Can we make space in our ‘new normal’ for those with a lived experience of racial oppression to find their voice amongst us?

Shona Shaw

In our Church at Home we celebrated a lockdown Pentecost, this is somewhat ironic. It is more than ironic that as we know the Spirit to be the breath of God among us we hear the cry of George Floyd and others – “I can’t breathe”. Joel prophesied that the Spirit would be poured out on all, Acts told what happened and Amos spoke of justice flowing like a never-failing stream. The experiences of black people, and also of women in Pakistan/India, and of those suffering domestic violence show that we are not dealing with isolated incidents. I am also aware of the greater effect of Covid among BAME communities. I believe that if the breath and justice of the Spirit is for all it must be for these people.

I too feel sadness and guilt that I have been too passive and been content to speak for myself rather than listen to others. I have enjoyed my privilege and so distanced myself from the pain. What is going on is stopping the flow of the Spirit.

In the coming days we may see headlines about violence in protest marches and the excesses of looting. I too do not condone these but to dwell on them is to focus on symptoms and not causes and to allow ourselves to become distracted from bringing real change for the better.

In making a statement, the first thing we can do is listen to the voices of those who experience and then move to be a community together and find a shared voice. As a white man I am ready to listen and through this act in a new way. I hope that our church will come out of lockdown to discover ways of being church. I hope that we will have the courage to adapt, the kindness to try out, the humility to lay things down and the imagination to experiment. Stories of oppression are interconnected but must be told specifically. I hope we will start listening with intent and I think it begins with matters of racial injustice that have been highlighted recently.

I believe that this is an integral part of the move of the Spirit and a witness to the risen Jesus Christ.

Graham Brownlee

Teaching a 3-year-old to ride a bike…and other reflections! Nathan Dring’s third blog

Time just flies. I can’t quite believe this is the 3rd blog I have written. I hope they are in some way helpful.

If this is the 1st you have read, I am simply reflecting on the phrases I repeat to my 3-year old daughter as she rides her bike. Words of reassurance, encouragement or challenge. Today I’m thinking about one phrase that I think is very powerful…but one that can be missing in society:

“You’re doing really well!”

Daisy has little legs but a HUGE determination. That said, she gets tired. Occasionally the wheel spins a little as the stabilisers lift it of the ground on bumpy surfaces. Other times there are hills that seem too much. At other points she feels nervous about going too fast. So, over and over I tell her, “You’re doing really well.”

The power of encouragement is an amazing thing. When someone tells you that you are doing well. When someone sees and recognises your effort and speaks out words to enthuse and cheer you on. I wonder sometimes if these words are too often lacking in society, in organisations and (deep breath) …in churches!

I love going to the cinema and as long as the projectionist does their job well, I don’t notice them. I see the output of what they do – the images, the action, the soundtrack – but I don’t give them a second thought…UNLESS…unless they make a mistake and the film is interrupted. Suddenly then everyone in the cinema is very interested in the projectionist. Suddenly everyone has an opinion that needs to be heard. Now everyone is an expert as they chunter and tut. To my shame, I have been this person, both in the cinema and outside of it.

Someone’s efforts have not met my expectations, so, rather than with love or grace, seeking to encourage them, “You’re doing really well!” I have voiced frustration that their best efforts have not met my standards!

Imagine if I applied this to Daisy on the bike! Not riding up the hill fast enough…rubbish, get off the bike. Too nervous to go down the hill…I am selling the bike on eBay! You would (I hope) rightfully tell me I am being too harsh – cruel even. And yet, if we don’t keep ourselves in check, we can be like this in other circumstances – work, family, church. It comes from a critical spirit and it is dangerous. Dangerous and devasting to any family…including the church.

I don’t get this one right all the time with my kids, let alone in other circumstances, but that is part of the journey isn’t it. Part of the refining as we seek to become more like Christ. Paul writes a great encouragement to the church in Thessalonica. Wouldn’t it would be life-changing and kingdom-building if this was our truth everyday – let’s pray for that!

1 Thessalonians 2:11-12 “For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.”

But until we get there, we are all trying out best…so keep on going:

You’re doing really well!

CHURCH AT HOME, 31 May, PENTECOST. With a special note of praise from the USA here’s your link to last Sunday’s service

You can watch our first, introductory live feed HERE 

All our prerecorded material is HERE

The above link includes our Pentecost Choir’s offerings and the Dance/movement sequence

Our second live feed is HERE

And the link to Shelley’s Family at Moortown programme is HERE

It’s always nice to get feedback on our services and particularly so when it comes from another church. That’s why last Thursday we were delighted to receive the following message via Facebook Messenger from Pastor Danny Chronister (pictured left) of the Trinity United Methodist Church in North Port, Florida. “I enjoyed your virtual choir singing “Spirit of the Living God so much that I showed it to all our viewers as part of my Sunday virtual Worship Service.”

Bless you Danny, we are glad you enjoyed our presentation and thanks for getting in touch. 

 

 

Nathan Dring’s weekly blog, and the psychology behind teaching a three year old to ride a bike gets a second airing

Teaching a 3-year-old to ride a bike…and other reflections!

So last week I gave a little bit of insight into my life under lockdown – particularly my daily walks/jogs with Daisy as she is loving cycling. Last week I reflected briefly on one of the phrases I repeated over and over, “Stop looking backwards!” and today I want to pause for a moment on another.

Daddy is right here!

For the most part, Daisy is very confident on her bike – even yelling at me from time to time if she thinks I am getting involved when she doesn’t want me to. This is often when she wants to show me that she can do it on her own – so my meddling (in her eyes) simply removes some of her choice and some of her autonomy.

That said, she still wants to know I am there. When she thinks I am in some way a bit distant (usually a work email on my phone) or if I have fallen behind at all, she lets me know…in no uncertain terms, that she wants to see me or at least have confidence I am close. As such, I find myself frequently reminding her, gently that “Daddy is right here.”

I remember in all my days growing up in church, I knew God was a Father. Unfortunately, I often heard the message that God is ‘like a father’ – which simply is not true. God isn’t seeking to mimic – he is the perfect example. I also remember hearing him referred to as ‘Father’ – a term which I always thought was quite a distant naming – it didn’t seem that warm to me. I remember the first time I heard that the word Abba has a meaning close to ‘Daddy’ made me feel a little uncomfortable. To call God Daddy felt far too familiar and kind of strange.

I am now probably at a midpoint on this…I understand he is Daddy, but I rarely call him that…but that is something He and I can work on!

So why did a story of a bike ride suddenly take a sideways leap to the father-nature of God? Well, simply this…I really want you to hear the words today that ‘Daddy is right here!’ In the midst of the current uncertainty and new ways of living. As new rules are introduced. As a new path into a new future is slowly revealed. As the ongoing changes that COVID leaves on our lives come into focus. In good times. Bad times. Hot days and rainy. In panic and in calm. Alone or in a family. Throughout all of this, ‘Daddy is right here.’

Sometimes we might think God is distant or quiet. Sometimes we want to feel him closer than we currently do. We might even question where he is during hard times or strange times, but the simple truth is this…’Daddy is right here.’

As Matthew 28:20 reminds us, in the words of Jesus, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

THE LEEDS BLESSING, a truly magnificent piece of work which features singers and musicians from here at MBC

Inspired by the huge online success of The Blessing UK a number of churches in Leeds have come together to make THE LEEDS BLESSING. This superb work which lasts just over eight minutes is performed by singers and musicians from across the city including some from here at MBC.

You can watch it in full here… let us know how many people you recognise.  

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