Jane Coates, the film The Secret Garden, and her family’s memory jar

I was inspired by Nathan’s reviews and comments on the films that he has been watching with the children to write the following piece. Sorry Nathan- I do not want to steal your thunder!

The story of The Secret Garden, by Frances Burnett, described as a ‘pastoral story of ‘self-healing’, is a children’s classic and has now just been turned into a new film version. In this story, the main character, Mary Lennox, 10 years old, is sent back to the UK from India after the death of her parents to cholera. She is cared for by her maternal uncle at Misselthwaite Manor, Yorkshire, and his young son, Colin. Mary uncovers the secret garden that belonged to the late wife of her uncle, her mother’s sister. Mary had always believed that her mother had no time for her and did not love her, until she discovered some hidden letters written by her mother to the sister and found photographs of the two sisters in the secret garden. The letters transform Mary’s understanding of her mother and make it clear to her that her mother loved her very much.

Watching the film made me consider our grandson Sam and his knowledge of his mum and dad. Richard, Sam’s dad died when Sam had just reached his 5th birthday and had started in Reception at school. Consequently, his memories of his dad can be sometimes sketchy. At Richard’s funeral  friends and contacts from around the world were asked to contribute to a ‘Jar of Memories’ for Charlotte and Sam.

Inside the jar there must be over 150 personal letters, often with photographs which portray a very clear picture of the kind of man that Richard was. At every mealtime Sam has been selecting out three or so letters that we read out together. This has helped Sam to learn more of the character, strengths, passions, travels, Christian faith, loves, careers and sheer devotion of his dad to Charlotte and to himself and to Jesus His Lord. It has enabled Sam to see his dad more clearly. Many of the stories and memories are very funny and very personal. We have laughed and sometimes been very teary as we have read the memories.

When Charlotte died only a year after Richard, we asked for friends and contacts to do the same for Sam so that he had a jar of memories of his mum and we kept the cards that were given to us at that time. So, we have plenty of material that will keep us going for quite some time. Wonderful memories.

This made me think again about that phrase “an observable love”. Richard’s passions were obvious and clear for all to see – his family, walking, mountain biking, camping in Scotland, the Lake District and Wales, photography and his Christian family. People spoke of his enthusiastic faith and witness and his sharing of that faith naturally and openly to anyone he contacted. He spoke about Jesus to all who would listen. He gossiped the gospel.

The beautiful phrase, ‘an observable love’, comes from a book by Francis Schaeffer who wrote many books such as Escape from Reason and The Mark of a Christian. This is how we are to be known and this is how Jesus is to be known.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13.v 34

I believe that Richard and Charlotte had an ‘observable love” and they have gone to join that Hall of Faith in Heaven.

Jane Coates

Moortots pumpkin party – from darkness to light, live and incredibly crafty

Thirty minutes in which Shelley and her brilliant assistant Rowan take us on a journey from darkness to light. Song, dance, a fabulous story and more craft ideas than you could shake a pumpkin at. 

If you missed it first time round, don’t worry you can see it by clicking right HERE

Oh, and if you did your own craft we’d love to see it. Email a picture to mbcnewspics@gmail.com and we’ll add it to these that we’ve already received. 

 

Film club (ish), the second of Nathan’s blogs. Another invitation to watch a film and then share your thoughts

So last time we took a look at Moana to have a think about any crossover and relevance to us as Christians and whether her journey of courage and leaving safety, to see hearts restored, might be something God is calling us to.
 
This week…no surprise…another kids film. This time it is the film Onward. In a world where unicorns roam like feral dogs, manticores run family-friendly restaurants and centaurs drive cars…Ian and Barley Lightfoot are on a quest. On Ian’s birthday they discover a spell that can bring their father back to them… for just one day. Things don’t quite work out though and they only restore his legs! The rest of the film is dedicated to all the adventures that follow.
 
Here’s the thing. These children have got their father, but only in part. So they will do all they can to see him in full. Sound familiar?
 
‘For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.’ – 1 Corinthians 13:12
 
I wonder how I am doing on my quest to see my Father more fully. To give everything I have so that I can see Him more clearly and know Him more. So that I can look at His face, walk with Him, talk with Him.
In the film both characters had a crisis at some point. Should they give up? Were they on the right path? But ultimately, they kept their focus, encouraged each other, took personal risks, made themselves vulnerable and ultimately…well…I don’t want to spoil the film.
 
But we get to write our own ending… will we see God fully, face to face? And before then, will we do all we can to walk with him, just be with him and enjoy his presence with us? 
 

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Mission Aviation Fellowship’s global week of prayer begins Sunday November 1. Sign up today to receive their digital prayer diary

At this time of year MAF tries to encourage a week of prayer linking their staff and supporters worldwide in every country they have a presence. It has come around again and begins this Sunday the 1st of November.

Those in MBC who take MAF news may already have heard about it and signed up to receive the printed copy of the Special Edition Prayer Diary through the post. If not, it’s not too late to sign up and receive the digital version straight to your E-mail inbox by visiting: MAF global Week of Prayer

On the web page you can select the Digital Version in the first box on the sign up page.

Best Wishes 

David Casson

Catalyst Lite. Roger Robson reports on a live online event that through serious thought, challenging debate and even a touch of comedy, rap and jazz brought to the fore a number of hugely challenging issues

In addition to Engage, BMS produces Mission Catalyst a magazine about the “Mission of the Mind”, taking themes such as Freedom; Worship; Islam etc. etc…and exploring them through writers of national and international reputation. Over the last decade “Catalyst Live” full-day events have been held to hear and dialogue with such writers ‘in the flesh’. In this year of lockdowns a ‘Lite’ version was held, live online, for 2 hours on the evening of 9th October.Four speakers, two from the UK and two from the USA gave talks and took part in Q & A’s interspersed with entertaining and thought provoking songs by Harry and Chris, styling themselves “ The nation’s favourite comedy – rap – jazz duo”!!

There were a few minor tech glitches, time lags etc and Professor Hauerwas’ cat stole the show during a Q & A, but this was a stimulating, hugely challenging and enjoyable evening. Deep thinkers, with clarity and humour opened serious issues of our world and their clearly Christ inspired responses to them.

The Highlights for me were:-

  1. Gale Richards – Baptist Minister in Cambridge on the Theological Imperatives for a Black Lives Matter movement. She explained how the theological truth that black lives are made in the image of God, has inspired black Baptist Christians through history. She challenged us with the question – Why do so many Christians in Britain not see that there has been, and still is systemic oppression of black people throughout our history?

Her challenging answers – a lack of education; the isolation of some Christians from world issues ; a preference for remaining in our comfort zones; unease that BLM is a secular movement – made me think that this is a movement all Christians should embrace, but fear that some never will.

  1. Stanley Hauerwas US Professor of Divinity and Law in his talk and Q & A session left us with may memorable quotes:
  • BLM is one sign of hope in a crazy, crazy country’
  • ‘Sadly, for many American Christians the ‘American’ is more important than the ‘Christian’
  • If Christians are losing status in western societies, that makes us free to speak openly for Jesus’
  • ‘We must free the church from nationalism and patriotism’
  • ‘We must tell our history in a way that is inclusive and acceptable to all – acknowledging past injustices. History can’t be used for self- justification’
  1. Makoto Fujimara Japanese/American artist and writer spoke of 2020 as a Lenten year and suggested that the Japanese tradition of wabi-sabi –“beauty in imperfection” as a way to understand pathos – reveals a hidden Christian culture in Japanese thought, as does the concept of Kontsigi – “ Mending to make New” which he linked to the Christian life as New.

     4. Helen Paynter UK Baptist Minister and director of the study of the Bible and violence at Bristol Baptist College was a stimulating and worthy concluding speaker on the theme “Land of Hope and Glory? Is it possible to be a Christian and a Nationalist?”

Helen’s talk was passionate and urgent with many memorable statements and challenges:- “In an age where the alt-right has penetrated the church in the US and parts of Europe we are in danger of having Ethnic Nationalism”

“Anti – immigration is based on White Christian ‘Normality’ – whereas in today’s world the Typical Christian is an African Woman.”

“Exceptionalism in the US has the Christian Vice President Pence urging Americans to ‘Fix our eyes on Old Glory’ (the US Flag)” [where is Fix your eyes upon Jesus?]

“Nationalism is not the same as Patriotism. Real patriotism loves good in the country, but is clear about its flaws.”

Before finally reminding us that “We (Christians) are members of the greatest trans-nationalist community ever”

All these talks were interspersed with songs by Harry and Chris on issues such as the environment; nostalgia for ‘simple Times’; and the chorus which most stuck in my mind, uniting all 7.7 billion of us humans:-

“We’ve all been in a womb….(and we’ll be in a tomb)”

A stimulating, thought provoking and gloriously Christian evening ending in heartfelt prayer “that God will give us something interesting to do …”(when so many in the west claim that they are ‘bored’)

Amen to that

Roger Robson

To learn more, a summary of Catalyst Lite is on the bmsworldmission.org website, where you can also sign up to receive Mission Catalyst and Engage magazines free by post.

Be a world changer… celebrate your birthday by giving a gift to BMS World Mission

If during these difficult times you are looking for a novel way to celebrate your birthday how about turning things on their head and GIVING a gift. 

The BMS Birthday Scheme is just one of BMS World Mission’s many fundraising platforms, and your birthday present to them will go directly to supporting vital health and infrastructure ministries across the world. 

Active in 35 different countries, including some which for security reason cannot even be named, the work BMS World Mission (formally the Baptist Missionary Society) does ranges from digging bore holes and building bridges to supporting doctors, nurses and speech therapists. 

To sign up to the Birthday Scheme all you need do is email your contact details to mbcnewspics@gmail.com and we will pass them through to Roger Robson who is MBC’s Mission’s co-ordinator. Then on your birthday you will receive a greetings card, an up to date News Bulletin and an envelope in which to return your donation. 

You can find out more about the Birthday Scheme and indeed about all the other activities that BMS World Mission is engaged in by clicking HERE but to give just three examples of how your birthday present could change lives here in black and white is what you see in the extract (above, right) from the 2020 bulletin.

£20 can support a Speech and Language therapist working with 7 year old Lois Ovenden in Gulu, Uganda for two days.

£29 can support a nurse at Guinebor II hospital in Chad for three days.

And £73 can support a BMS engineer like Tim Darby from Beckenham for one day on his project to provide clean water to rural communities in Uganda. 

THANK YOU AND WHENEVER IT FALLS HAPPY BIRTHDAY

 

Gareth and Stephen become the latest in a long line of MBC members to join the board of the Leeds and Moortown Furniture Store

On Wednesday evening, via Zoom, Stephen Wylde and Gareth Davies became the latest in a long line of MBC members who over more than 30 years have been elected to the board of the Leeds and Moortown Furniture Store. 

The Store, which began life here at Moortown way back in 1986 is now made up of a team of 13 (6 of whom are regular volunteers) and is based in a 10,000sq ft warehouse on an industrial estate in Seacroft; back then under the “chairmanship” of Hilary Willmer* it’s small team of volunteers relied on garages and garden sheds for storage and for transport their cars and a horsebox.    

However, despite some enormous changes one constant has been the team’s desire to help people in need. Indeed, here is an extract from the charity’s Statement of Objects which describes its mission… “as a practical demonstration of Christian commitment to socially and economically disadvantaged people our mission is to relieve poverty by distributing donated furniture.” A commitment as alive today as it was almost three and a half decades ago. 

For those of you who aren’t too familiar with the Store, or with it’s workload here are a few stats. In the last financial year (2019/20) the Leeds and Moortown Furniture Store completed 964 deliveries, an increase of 27 on the previous year. This equates to 6,512 separate items of furniture. And it made 1,532 collections made up of 7,985 separate items. Apart from a small delivery charge each and every one of these items was supplied at no cost to themselves to an individual or a family who had been referred to the charity by one of 60 or so statutory or voluntary support agencies. Of course besides providing this very practical support each and every item of furniture reused reduces the chances of it being incinerated, dumped in landfill or worse still fly tipped. 

In more recent times one of the Store’s biggest adventures came about when in response to a request to supply new furniture to a wave of incoming refugees it set up a retail arm selling furniture, furnishings and white goods. That project, L&MFS Trading Ltd, is still going and now works alongside a number of local authority departments as well as several social housing schemes supplying anything from a tea spoon to a fridge freezer; any profit the trading company makes is of course immediately covenanted across to the charity. 

Right from the start the Leeds and Moortown Furniture Store and LMFS Trading have had just one aim, and that’s been addressing the needs of people in Leeds. In 2020, and particularly following a three month Covid-19 closure it’s only through the commitment and drive of its trustees, directors, management, staff and volunteers that this aim continues to be fulfilled .

That said without you playing your part and donating your unwanted furniture (beds, sofas, tables, chairs, wardrobes, cabinets etc. etc.) none of this would be possible. 

At this moment in time besides Gareth and Stephen, Graham Brownlee, Karen Handley, John Sherbourne, Terry Kelly (Middleton Baptist Church) and Gillean Howitt (a former social worker/service user) sit on the charity and trading company boards whilst another MBC member John Gamson is the Store’s Manager. 

To read more about the charity and to find out how you can support L&MFS by making a one off cash donation visit www.leedsandmoortown.org.uk or call Chair of Trustees John Sherbourne 0n 07913505865.

Thank you.

*When we told Hilary Willmer about the arrival of two new, home grown trustees we also invited her to write a couple of sentences recounting the early days. Here’s what she sent us.

The Furniture store was certainly founded by Moortown Baptist Church in 1986; it arose from my frustration when in Chapeltown CAB I encountered  families with no beds for their children or chairs to sit on – while members of MBC asked if I could find a home for good quality furniture that they no longer needed. The first committee included Christine Robson as secretary, myself as chair, Julie Harris as treasurer for one year as well as Joan Thompson and John Hornby; all members of MBC.  And since then involvement in many ways has continued by direct involvement of many members and much needed financial support from the church as well as the early minibus.

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